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Attn: People that are contemplating or in the middle of a DIVORCE

Finally! How to Start Your DIVORCE Process

Right NOW, Get Out and

Move ON With Your Life!

And You DON'T Have to Be an EXPERT to do it!

Finally, stop treading water and being miserable,

get your life in order, get away from your partner

and create the life you really want!

Dear Wounded Soul,

Thinking about divorce or being stuck in the middle of a divorce - just sucks. If you want to keep your confidence and sanity throughout the entire process, then this is the most important letter you're read all year!

Here's why...

Because in today's whirlwind world, divorce isn't just about visiting a lawyer and signing some forms. Crafting your divorce plan and handling all aspects of your divorce in a logical and sane path will mean the difference between peace of mind and driving yourself crazy!

When I do becomes I don't...

Whether you're thinking about divorce, dating, shacking up or marriage, "Launch Your Divorce" is the workbook for you. Wanda Bailey did not leave a stone unturned as she outlined topics to think about in any serious relationship...heading towards final separation. From to do lists to websites to organizations, a plethora of information is shared with the reader who is in need of what to do when divorce decisions become a reality...and is the only solution. Reading this book is as if the author is sitting there with you, sipping coffee, guiding you step-by-step and talking to you like a BFF.

~ Dr. Phebe Moore Simmons


I know where you are........

  • I don't have a clue how to get started!

  • I don't know if I really want a divorce!

  • How do I find a lawyer?

  • Do I have to move out right away?

  • Where will my child live?

  • How do I tell people about my divorce?

  • It seems overwhelming!

  • I can't figure out how to get started!

I get it!

It took four years for me to get the courage to start my divorce. I was doubting if I could even finish it because of my partner's behavior. I couldn't decide on the "perfect" time, the "perfect" lawyer, the "perfect" way to tell my partner, the "perfect" way to tell my kids - sound familiar?

Then one day my kids said to  me - "Mom, why do you stay?" 

(Sometimes we need a little push even if it's a tiny voice!)

Guess what I did? I did it. I got all of the financial stuff in order and visited a lawyer. (And he asked me to help him write some software, but that's a discussion for another letter about seizing opportunities!) And I finished my divorce in about six months.

And I learned all about divorce while researching software design - and I kept going through my divorce.

Nobody told me that there was stuff to deal with after my divorce was final.


"After that, I learned the in's and out's of divorce that no one ever talks about!"

Here's what I know.........

You are a passionate person who wants to make a change in your life. You understand that to do that, you have to take a stand and put yourself and your life out there in a big way. You have to stage yourself for success and break out of your relationship!

Your divorce doesn't just "happen": because you wish for it.......

Staying in your relationship is giving up on yourself!!!!

How do you honor yourself and all of the wonderful things that you are to yourself, to your family and the world? You start the process of ending your relationship - now. You take one step, then the next, and you extricate yourself from the relationship that is killing you inside and out.

The great news is that you don't have to fumble around and figure it out all on your own!

Once you master the steps to ending the relationship and moving on with your life, you'll find the peace that you've been looking for - and be able to start a new life of freedom without the heavy burden of your marriage.

The secret lies in understanding what to do next - and then after that, what to think about and decide for yourself. The big question though is...

Do you have the courage to follow and implement a simple system that will show you exactly what to do to finally get this process rolling from a dream to your reality?

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I'd like to introduce you to the Launch Your Divorce Workbook. Here's what you get:

  • Checklists for Before, During, and After the Divorce process

  • Recommended books to buy from your local bookstore or off of Amazon (or check out from the library!

  • Other information products to help with your Divorce, Parenting, and Recovery process

  • Assets & Debts Spreadsheet (this is a download that you'll get the link to in the book!

  • Information on Social Media pitfalls

  • Military Divorce information

  • Recognizing a Narcissistic Partner

  • Dealing with a Passive Aggressive Partner

  • Finding the RIGHT Lawyer

  • How to tell friends, family, your employer, and your kids

But wait - what if you don't have the courage?

You know what? That's okay, too. I didn't have the courage either...for four years.

And I survived. But I did not thrive. I stagnated, I made poor decisions, I lashed out at my partner, I was a hot mess, simmering with anger at being stuck, and did a lot of crying in the bathroom.

If I'd had someone to tell me - here, sweetie, start here... Be sure you have your ducks in a row, and get this damn thing started - I would have made the move sooner. And been a lot happier - a lot sooner.

And that's what I want to do for you - just get you started.

One of the things I've shared is my Pre-Divorce Checklist. Would you like to have a copy? If you'll give me your e-mail address, I'll get it to you.

And if you're in a situation where your e-mail is monitored constantly - get a new e-mail address (that little tidbit is one of the first things I advise you to do!) 

Let me help get you started.

Go ahead and fill out the subscription form below - and get your Pre-Divorce Checklist.


If you're not ready - that's super okay. Take your time, get right in your head with it. But honor yourself - take care of yourself - and get the hell out.

Lots of hugs and love,


(That's my pic up above walking with my headphones in. I listen to music and Audible books a lot!)

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